That bit about the stems holding up better really hits home. It's funny how often the answer with fragile things (flowers, old books, my grandma's china) is to add more structure, not less. I've been using those clear hair elastic bands for thin stems, which sounds silly but works. I see this everywhere now, like how the best bookshelves have the most brackets, you know? We notice the pretty thing but never the little supports keeping it from falling apart.